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Meet the 83-year-old gay man who just made his porn debut

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Norm want to empower younger gay men to explore the healing power of pleasure (Photo: Himeros.tv | YouTube)

Last month we revealed that gay YouTube star Davey Wavey was launching his own porn company.

However, it wasn’t going to turn out your run-of-the-mill porn.

Rhode Island’s Davey Wavey (a nickname given to him by his parents when young – his real name is Jonathan) believes a lot of gay porn lacks intimacy. He even thinks watching too much of the porn that’s currently out there could be bad for our sex lives.

The 33-year-old’s new company, himeros.tv, was created to show more romance and relatable sexual encounters.

‘As gay people, we don’t learn about gay sex from our parents, and we certainly don’t learn about it in school,’ he told GSN in January.

‘The reality is, the sex we have is generally a less-than-fulfilling combination of trial and error and what we see in the porn we watch.’

‘Norm is 83. He’s sweet, loving and immensely wise’

Yesterday, he unveiled one of the men to be making their debut on his porn site.

‘Norm is 83. He’s sweet, loving and immensely wise,’ says Davey in a blog about the film. ’He also came out late in life, and has spent the last few decades exploring and evolving his sex and sexuality. It’s my hope that this video conveys some of Norm’s heart and soul to you.’

Explaining more to GSN, Davey said, ‘In a gay community that often views youth as the only currency of value, it’s refreshing to celebrate everything that our elders bring to the table including wisdom, experience and… yes, beauty.’

In a promo for the film, Blessing of the Elder, Norm himself explains that he was raised in a religious household and felt deep shame about his sexuality and masturbation when young.

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It took him decades to come to terms with his sexual feelings, but now he works with other people to help them explore ‘the healing power of pleasure’ in a safe and supportive environment.

He’s one of the founder of Moon Hearth Ministries. He also offers ‘sessions in sacred Intimacy, Tantra and personal Growth’ in his hometown of Asheville, North Carolina.

‘Seniors, just like everyone else, think about sex’

In Blessing the Elder, Norm is filmed rubbing his body and masturbating. The film also features footage of younger stars Blake Mitchell and Joey Mills having sex with one another.

It is edited in such a way that Norm could be fantasizing about the men, or might even be remembering a distant sexual memory of his own.

‘It’s my intention,’ says Norm, ‘to empower the younger generation of gay men to enjoy lots of mind bedazzling sex. And to know that they still have a lot to look forward to.’

‘Seniors, just like everyone else, think about sex,’ says Davey in his blog.

‘In fact, some of the horniest people I know are elders. And I can promise you that they are having sex. In some instances, wonderful, mind-blowing sex from which the rest of us could learn.

‘And even though our culture places an emphasis on smooth skin and youth, our elders are valuable human beings with tremendous gifts including wisdom, experience and yes, beauty.’

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